为什么不要随便去指点人？
“医不叩门、师不顺路、法不空传。”
医不叩门，医生不能主动上门，说人家有病，要怎么治，人家会想你怎么这么热心，是不是来骗钱的？
师不顺路，就是真正的大师，不是你随便就能遇到的，你逛个街、买个菜，就遇到了一位大师，那是不可能的。真正的大师都是神龙见首不见尾，你要耐心地寻找，千里拜访，而且必须诚心地拜访，不能随随便便的就能见到大师。之所谓大师，一般人找他，他是懒得理得，你要诚心诚意，并且还要有悟性，大师才会指点你。
法不空传，如果人家不想听，没兴趣，或者听不懂，或者和你不投缘，你硬要点醒他，就是你不对了。比如你跟乞丐说，要好好劳动，就可以过上有尊严的生活，乞丐不知道吗？他就是懒惰罢了。比如你跟学习不好的人说要多多看看书，他多看了书也没有用，因为他看不懂，他天生就不适合读书，也许可以成为一名大商人或著名的厨师。还有的人阅历不够，听不懂弦外之音，或者悟性不够，你说的高深的道理他听不懂，还不如给他2个烤鸡腿，能让他更喜欢你。
所以，要闭上好为人师的嘴，除非他发自内心地真的是向你请教。
Why not give people directions?
"Doctors do not knock at the door, teachers are not on the way, and the law is not empty transmission.”
The doctor does not knock the door, the doctor can not take the initiative to come, say the somebody else is sick, how to treat, the somebody else will think you how so enthusiastic, is not to cheat money?
The teacher is not on the way, is a real master, not you can meet, you stroll a street, buy a dish, met a master, that is impossible. The real master is the dragon to see the head but not see the end, you have to look for patiently, thousands of miles to visit, and must sincerely visit, can not see the master casually.The so-called master, the general people find him, he is too lazy to reason, you have to be sincere, but also have understanding, the great teacher will guide you.
The law is not empty, if people do not want to listen to, no interest, or do not understand, or and you do not hit it off, you hard point to wake him, is you are wrong. For example, you told a beggar, to work hard, you can live a dignified life, beggars don't know? He is just lazy. For example, if you tell someone who is not good at learning to read more books, it is useless for him to read more books, because he does not understand, he is naturally not suitable for reading, maybe he can become a big businessman or a famous cook. There are also people who do not have enough experience, do not understand the implication, or understanding is not enough, you say the profound truth he can not understand, it is better to give him two roast chicken legs, can let him like you more.
So, close the mouth of a good teacher, unless he really asks you from the bottom of his heart.
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人生就是一场修行，需要志同道合的朋友，才不会孤单；
人生也是一场单程旅行，不能为了追求结果而错过了旅途的风景。
如果自认为很聪敏，为什么又口袋空空？
我们需要的不是说，而是做，坚持做正确的事。
都说人生如梦又说人生如戏，其实人生是血和泪还有屈辱写成的。
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